LoVeR or FRieND

LoVeR or FRieND

 

Every human being don’t want to be lonely, that’s what I know and I also felt it. People will be more happily if their owned some body who accompanied them, it can be Just friend or it can be more than that, as a lover maybe =).

Both lover and friend are very important in our life, but there is a different thing between them. Friend is some one who care and want to share all of things, help to solving the problem, get a party when we’re graduated and also whip up enthusiasm when we buried. Actually lover is the same as friend but from my personal opinion lover is more than friend in couple of side, such as about feeling, principle and also about sex. Other thing which is the deference between Lover and friend is commitment. Usually friendship is happened without any word of honor came out from their own mouth, it just happened accordingly together with the closeness and admiring each other. It’s different with lover which usually needs confession of commitment from the guy and then it will accept or rejected by the girls.

Some people say that Friend is more important that Lover. They said that friend will never turn you down, there is no Ex friend, and etc. But I thing it so naive, coz in the end we need a person that we love and also love us, who will accompany in the rest of our life, not only just a friend. Having a problem with a Lover is just a consequence from the thing which called commitment, so don’t be afraid to have a problem with your lover coz I’m sure with that squabble can be you and your Lover get closer, and also admiring each other.

 

In the end it’s up to you to see the value and the difference between Friend and Lover =)

Never say Never

Never say never

Never say never, coz it will be ever. I got this quote from my friend when I was in junior high. My friend said that “There is nothing impossible in this life, so don’t ever say never coz it will be ever. Trust me”. At first time I really really don’t agree with this quote but after I think about it frequently, and also see the reality, now I agree and this quote is become one of my principal in my life.
You may say it’s strange but trust me it’s true. Do you remember that people was always do calculating manually and it takes very long long time, and now calculating only need a few second with computer. Did you also remember that people said it impossible to anybody can in this world have a “trip” to the moon, but for now on if you have the money then you can “trip” there =). Long distance communication also was reputed impossible, but after Alexander graham bell founded telephone, every one who want to communicate with someone in another country in different ocean can be connected, more over now we know new technology called Internet, which very helpfully for information, education, and also communication. Communication through internet make possible to talk and the same time you can see the person’ body who you talk with. It just a simple example and one of million things that people think it impossible to do but it happened.
With this quote I can be more optimistic for anything I can do, Love, Life, Job, Hobby, and all the things in this life and it also bring the spirit to achieve my dream. I Hope you can implement this quote on your life also, and I wish you all the best for your life and your dream will come true.

Life is a Choice

LiFe iS a CHoiCe

Life is a choice, once you choose, and then you have the consequence. I know it just a realy simple quote, but I take that as one of rule in my life. As simple as driving a car, when I am in middle of intersection then I should choose which way that I want to take, its really really easy, I only have to choose left, right, turn over or just keep my car straight away in the line. Before I cross the way/road that I choose, I completely don’t know what will happened on that road – unless for some people who has sixth sense he he he he… =) -, it can be a traffic jam, un-appropriate way, broken road, a good way, a perfect way and others possibility which I should take the impact/risk then. I can not run from consequence of my decision and of course I should face it also. The only thing that I can do is consider what I am going to choose and after that I should be ready for the result, whether it’s good or it’s not as my expected.

Some times when people have a problem, they blamed the situation; they don’t want to see the reality, coz I think whatever thing that happened in your life, it is caused by your self – either direct or indirect -. The situation and other thing which related to it are only as a bonus or a company of what you have done. It is hard? Yes, it’s really really hard for me, but I should keep try and try and also learn to implement it in my life. In the end, I hope I will learn something from it and hope it can make me a responsible and better person then. Thanks.

Best Regards,

Guarte